Family Dynamics

The values of the family unit and each family member's personality affect family dynamics and can often be a primary source of conflict. Religious and cultural background and values are often assumed to be a shared experience for members of the same family, particularly in the eyes of a parent. When another family member disagrees with or has life experiences opposed to these standards, it can put a strain on the family dynamics, with the traditionally complying members experiencing disobedience, betrayal, or concern for their well -being. The family member opposing the standards often feels like they are not being listened to, ignored, expected to change. Even after initial conflicts, if any, are resolved, this difference in values will still in some way affect family dynamics. Everyone lives according to values consciously or unconsciously. Values are deeply held personal beliefs, desires, and ideals. They are a filter for perceiving the world and acting in it. Values determine decisions and behavior. For example, an individual who values honesty and loyalty will be truthful and faithful to family and friends.